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How Monalisa GOT OVER ANGER & REVIVED RELATIONSHIPS with her daughter
Monalisa had been working on the anger that came up with her daughter. One evening, her daughter called during exams, crying and screeching. A surge of anger came. And then it was not there. She said: slow down. She heard what her daughter was actually saying. They talked for forty minutes. She says she is getting goosebumps describing it. It was the first time she became a parent.
Anger management works on the surface. Installation dissolves the pattern that anger was pointing to. Monalisa did not suppress her anger that evening. It simply was not there. In its place was the capacity to hear what her daughter actually needed. That is the distinction.